Amala Paul opens up on getting hitched again!

  • IndiaGlitz, [Sunday,August 13 2017]

Amala Paul has survived a break up with her husband and director Vijay last year. Unlike many other stars who either refuse to talk about their failed marriage or talk only the negatives of their ex-partner, Amala Paul stands tall as the one who still speaks nice words about Vijay.

In her exclusive interview to IndiaGlitz, the actress said, "I don't like to call it bad. It's about experiences which are not pleasant, you call them bad. For me, it was painful of course but I think suffering is biologically helpful if it helps you evolve, it makes you a better person. It depends on you as to how you look at it. About my marriage life, it has been pretty painful, pretty sad. I can't say there was no unpleasantness at all. I can't say it was smooth and happy or anything. There were a lot of painful experiences we both went through. Since we both are celebrities, we both are from the industry, a lot of people got involved unnecessarily, media stories got concocted and it just got out of our control. Life can't always be stable. There are things which are out of your control. I chose to look at the brighter side of life and move on. I made peace with it by forgiving myself and forgiving others involved in it and I am happy."

Does she feel she rushed into her marriage?

"I don't know. A couple of months back, I would've said that. But right now I am in a position where I can look back, I am able to connect the dots. I think everything happens in your life for a reason. At the age of 23, I got married. I think it would've worked if I married a little later on, as a person with little more maturity and little more to understand about marriage how it works. May be it would have worked, you never know. But I am so glad that I was married and could know a wonderful person like Vijay. There is so much that we contributed to each other's life. I think I was too kiddish and the person I've become right now is drastically different. I am so happy about the person I've become right now- to value life more and to value things in it, to value people and my work everything. That has made me very matured and I help me evolve and I am glad it happened. "

Will she get hitched again?

"Why not? Of course, I will. I am not in an 'Oh! I hate relationships' mode. I will never be in that phase. Definitely, it will happen but I think right now I am trying to make my relationship with myself more better because there are a lot of things which I have to focus right now- my career, myself and a lot of other interesting things I am planning to do. If it happens let it (happen)."